Stop being an actor in your own life….

“You are not just here to fill space or be a background character in someone else’s movie. Consider this: nothing would be the same if you did not exist. Every place you have ever been and everyone you have ever spoken to would be different without you. We are all connected, and we are all affected by the decisions and even the existence of those around us.”

~ David Niven ~

 

This is a quote I put up on my fb page yesterday. I cannot seem to tell people enough while doing readings or communicating with friends and family members. STOP allowing people to control your life. Stop playing the part THEY want you to play in your own life. You have your own set of goals and dreams. You’re completely able to go for what you want in life, Just because someone “believes or assumes” that you cannot conquer your dream, who are YOU to believe them? Do you believe in them more than you believe in Self? That’s a problem right there. You really have to follow your heart and your desire to accomplish things that you want.

People will often guide you with their fears and hangups. They couldn’t achieve it so they don’t want you to get there. You have to just push forward through it all and sometimes following your dreams means losing some people you thought were friends but in all honesty if they discourage you from following your dreams they were not friends to begin with. How about this year 2013 You do something for YOU

 

Grammar—Error lol

So I’ve been laughing at myself all day, reading books and trying to figure it all out. I am of Acadian (French/Cajun) Heritage, so often times my English is poor when it comes to my Grammar,  You’ve probably noticed as one of my good friends probably has.

I was speaking to her today and she said, You know i was reading your blog earlier and I was confused with the whole your, you’re  whole thing. To me, I had no idea there was that much of a difference. I mean *eye roll* obviously, it’s spelled differently for a reason but i never paid it no attention. Although i made a promise to myself to try to write better, I’ve probably already fugged up thee times since the beginning of this post haha

I’m just thinking about it and it would really help me to take a writing class or something but I’ve been doing a lot of procrastinating, about things like that. although it’s a New Year and I’ve made plans to create less mess ups this year for myself. I’m sure the grammar is somewhere in the middle of the list

Thanks though…. 😉 For showing me that I ain’ shit once again but at the end of the day I adore this woman more than anyone I’ve ever had the chance to encounter online……   I want to take a moment to congratulate her on helping me find something else to obsess about LOL